Sunday, March 9, 2008

Dear Suicidal

By Ed Howes May you daily increase in wisdom, love, gratitude, reverence,
healing, peace, joy, happiness, laughter and prosperity. If no
one else seems to want these things for you, I do. Please accept
them with an open mind and heart. All of your pain has a single
source. That source is ignorance, or not knowing. If you knew,
deep in your heart, as well as in your head, the great secret
that few people ever know; you would never again feel the pain
you have been feeling. The secret is two fold. Who you are and why you are. You can
hardly know who you think you are is a creation of others, fastened upon you since birth. All your life, others have defined you by their words and actions. They have convinced you that you are somebody very different than who you are. You have every right to be confused. You sense you are someone else but you can't find that person or see her or him clearly. You can solve this problem. The tools you need to find yourself are mocked by those who
also believe they are someone they are not. This riddle is
passed from one generation to another through all history. Here
is your key: Obtain your astrological natal chart from an
astrologer. You will have to supply the astrologer with your
date, time and place of birth. Ask someone who should know, or
seek out hospital records. If you cannot find your time or place
of birth, a fair natal or birth chart can still be constructed. Next, seek out a numerologist or get a book or two on the
subject. When you have examined your personal astrology and
numerology, you will see the truth of my words. You will find
the person you suspected was you, your strengths and weaknesses.
You might also discover many reasons why you have been mistaken
for somebody else. You will no longer feel like a lost soul. You will also begin to see that all things in life are
cyclical. That is, no situation remains indefinitely and change
is the way of all life. You will see that certain experiences
will repeat throughout your lifetime. As you change the way you
see them, the effects will be very different and much less
painful. You will see how patience is always rewarded and
forcing is always punished. You will see new options for your
life. You may be inspired to use these tools to better know
people close to you, instead of defining them through your pain.
This is your opportunity to be free of the pain that has denied
you so much happiness. You can handle this. You will be
lightening an unbearable load until there is no longer any load
at all. It is a rapid process, quite the opposite of
accumulating pain. Now that you know who you are, you are ready to learn why you
are. This is detective work. You have clues to follow up. You
have experience. You have had moments of utter joy. What were
the things that created this joy? Perhaps you cannot recall any
joyful thing in your life. Look for the moments of relative
happiness. What was the cause of it? Astrology and numerology
will provide more clues, explaining what kind of things suit you
and what kind of activities are likely to provide you with
satisfaction. You may think you came into this world with nothing. Others may
have told you so. You did not come with nothing. You came with
gifts to give or share with the rest of us, as we have gifts to
share with you, if you would only look for and accept them. The
joy you have been missing is the giving, receiving and sharing
of these gifts. All givers are unique and one of a kind. Their
gifts are likewise unique. No two people receive gifts the same way either. To test this,
give the exact same gift to a dozen different people and
carefully observe its effect on them. This is the universal
purpose for every person who ever lived. Giving and receiving.
To only give or to only receive is to rob ourselves and others
of joy and happiness. Who can receive when no one gives? Who can
give when no one accepts? Years of accumulated pain become an addiction. Pain we never
wanted in the first place becomes an old friend. When things go
well for us, we miss this old friend. We feel uncomfortable that
something is missing. We can no longer respond to pleasure or
enjoy it. We don't quite understand that we are doing this by
free choice. We focus on external influence and deny ourselves
the very freedom of choice. We fail to meet the expectations of others and don't know what
we should expect of ourselves, simply because we don't know who
or why we are. When we do know these things, the expectations of
others lose all importance and we become very reasonable about
what we expect of ourselves. All the pressure is then removed.
With the pressure off, we see everything more clearly, as though
a mental, emotional and spiritual fog has lifted from our lives. Lift your eyes to heaven and give thanks for the pain you have
known. This will be the standard against which to measure your
pleasure, joy and happiness, once you have found who and why you
are. Some religions deny reincarnation. Some support it. No matter what we personally believe, the wisest assumption is that
reincarnation is the case. That you can earn a better or worse
life in this one. Numerology will tell you about the lesson you
are now here to learn. If you short circuit this learning
process, you will be forced to repeat it as you might a grade in
school. When you take matters into your own hands in the hope of
escaping your pain, instead of learning from it, your
circumstances in the next life may be far worse than this one,
with twice the pain and twice the struggle. Who would want that? We are made to think that the beliefs of others belong to us.
We defend these beliefs as though they were our very own and
hard won. In most cases they were planted in our subconscious by
mere suggestion, as a hypnotist might do. Accept them or reject
them. It is foolish to fight for or against them. We struggle
when we need to simply relax. We can believe whatever we choose, no matter what others say,
which is often NOT what they really believe. Because we can
choose whatever we want to believe, we can believe things that
cause us pain. We can just as easily believe things that give us
pleasure. The natural person seeks pleasure. The confused person
chooses pain. If we can only care enough about the world around
us and how we fit, we can end all confusion and totally
transform a life that only seems to have so little value. Think
of yourself as the caterpillar who cannot know a great
transformation is in the works. A small book that can be read in a few hours, teaches anyone
how to tap into and direct the power that transforms
caterpillars into butterflies, at will. It is titled the Seven
Spiritual Laws of Success. It was written by Deepak Chopra. Once
you have learned who and why you are, this book will show you
how to be and do what you choose and what you must. It will show
you how to find true happiness. The world would be a far better
place if everyone read this book in school. The more we read it
and follow its advice, the more peace and happiness we find
within us. Drop me a line when you emerge from your cocoon. (PUBLISHERS! Free Promotion Here - Now! If you will leave a comment and your URL or hyperlink on this or any article of mine: 1.) Some of my on - site readers will visit your website. 2.) I will visit your website. If I like what I find, I will write a positive review and publish it here at EzineArticles. You may delete this generous offer when re - publishing this article.) Ed Howes sought and found, knocked and entered. Now he sees things differently. To see more of what he sees, please visit http://www.justanotherview.com or do an author search here at Ezine Articles. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ed_Howes http://EzineArticles.com/?Dear-Suicidal&id=136854 online pharmacy free consultations cheapest ambien
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